Safe Environment Continuing Education
The focus for this year's continuing education for the Safe Environment program is, Peer to Peer Abuse. One piece that was discussed was the topic of bullying.
Bullying involves a pattern of aggressive behavior, in which one peer engages in the unprovoked, intentional harm or invoking of fear in the other. This behavior is repeated over a period of time. Bullying involves an imbalance of power within an interpersonal relationship. Bullying is not normal childhood behavior. Bullying has significant negative consequences for the target, the bully, and society.
Warning Signs - changes in mood or behavior, sleep disturbances, avoidance of school, parish, or other peer activities, changes in academic performance, taking a long "illogical" route to and from school/church/other activities, few reported friendships, requests to change schools, "drop out" of religious education or other activities, unexplained injuries, or damaged property.
What I can do - Become informed for the warning signs of abuse in peer relationships. Work collaboratively with your parish and school to structure safe environments. Educate your children about the characteristics of right relationships, signs of risk, and what to do if they are being bullied. Model appropriate behavior. Set clear expectations for your child's behavior toward others and talk about what to do when others are bullying or being bullied.